5 min
FreeAfterglow
A 5-minute night ritual
End the day together, gently. Three short prompts — one gratitude, one memory, one soft question — that turn the volume down before sleep.
WarmReflective
A private ritual app for couples
Small rituals,
closer every day.
Ruva turns connection into a repeatable ritual — short, meaningful, playful moments you actually look forward to. Built for two people, and only two people.
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The core ritual
Daily Dual Reveal
Each day you both get one carefully chosen prompt. You answer privately. Only when you've both replied does Ruva lay your answers side by side — with a gentle nudge to follow up.
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You both get a prompt
Each day, one carefully chosen question — written to create emotional movement, not fill time.
02
Answer privately
Reply on your own, in text, voice, photo, a slider, or a choice between two. Your answer stays hidden.
03
Reveal together
Only when you've both replied does Ruva lay your answers side by side — with a gentle nudge to follow up.
TextVoice (up to 60s)Photo + captionOne-tap sliderChoose between two
Ritual modes
Designed sessions,
not a card deck.
Instead of static categories, Ruva offers ritual modes — each a session format with its own pacing, tone, and mechanics. Three are always free; the deeper ones are part of Premium.
10 min
FreeParallel
Built for distance & busy days
You both answer in your own time, across time zones or schedules. The reveal waits until you're both ready tonight.
WarmReflectiveDeep
3 min
FreeSignal Check
A 3-minute emotional pulse
Not a diagnosis, just a check-in. Share where your energy is and one thing you might need — nothing more if you don't want.
WarmReflective
10 min
PremiumUnderneath
Deeper prompts, consent-gated
A guided descent into the questions you don't usually ask. Intensity rises gently; you can stop or soften at any step.
DeepReflective
7 min
PremiumTiny Dates
A co-op date in 7 minutes
A small, playful date inside the app — a few minutes that feel like you went somewhere together.
PlayfulWarm
5 min
PremiumIn Case We Forget
Messages for future moments
Write something for a future moment — 'open when you feel overwhelmed,' 'open when we forget why.' They wait, sealed, until the right time.
WarmDeep
5 min
PremiumTwo Truths Forward
Future-facing questions
Stop replaying the past. Answer about the future — what you hope, expect, and want to build — and see how your forecasts align.
ReflectiveWarm
Together
Shared space, when you're paired.
Once your partner joins, a private shared space opens — quiet presence, emotional weather, co-op stories, and date ideas. Everything lives between the two of you.
Quiet Presence
When you don't want to type, send a small, intentional signal — more than a heart, less than a conversation. Your partner knows you're thinking of them, no reply expected.
- Thinking of you, no reply needed
- Hold this for later
- Small bravery for your day
- Come back to me tonight
Emotional Weather
A low-friction daily check-in. Pick a weather state, add a little context, and optionally one request. Your partner feels where you are today without a long exchange.
- Low battery, need softness
- Buzzing, tell me something funny
- Proud and full
- Distant but trying
- Overloaded, stay near
Premium
Co-op Story Builder
Build tiny things together, one line at a time — a dream Sunday, a two-perspective memory, your weird little truths. Asynchronous, playful, and yours alone.
Premium
Date Ideas
Propose a small plan for your partner to accept or decline. When they say yes, the date weaves itself into your shared memory archive.
Intimacy dial
Your comfort zones, set by you
During onboarding you choose the tones you actually want: playful, warm, reflective, flirty, deep. Ruva filters every prompt to your boundaries, and you can opt out of mature-toned packs permanently.
PlayfulWarmReflectiveFlirtyDeep
Memory weaving
Memory Weaving
Ruva quietly turns your shared moments into a private relationship archive — not a feed, a curated surface. Paired answers, reveals, voice notes, photos, firsts, milestones, accepted dates, and stories all live here.
Everything becomes an artifact
- Paired answers
- Reveals
- Voice snippets
- Photos (full quality)
- Firsts
- Milestones
- Accepted date ideas
- Co-op stories
“Look at us then.”
Older entries resurface over time — a soft 'look at us then' moment with a little context, so the archive feels alive rather than abandoned.
Pairing
Two people, paired in a tap
Invite your partner with a link, QR code, or a simple invite code. They tap Join, enter the code, and Ruva connects you privately — everything from then on is shared only between the two of you.
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Send an invite — link, QR, or code
2
Your partner opens Ruva and taps Join
3
They enter the code
4
You're paired. Everything is private to you two.
Link QR code Invite code
Pricing
Fair pricing, no dark patterns.
Premium unlocks depth and variety — never basic usability. The free tier stays genuinely usable. One partner subscribes and the whole couple unlocks everything.
Genuinely usable, for free
We deliberately keep the free tier meaningful, because locking everything behind a paywall is exactly what couples hate.
- 3 daily reveals per week
- Three free ritual modes — always available
- Emotional weather (3 check-ins/week)
- Quiet presence, unlimited
- Last 30 days of memories
- Pairing & invites, always free
Monthly
Flexible, month to month.
€12.99/month
- Unlimited daily reveals
- The full ritual library
- Co-op stories & date ideas
- Permanent memory archive
- Memory resurfacing
Annual
About €5/month — the one most couples pick.
€59.99/year
- Everything in Monthly
- Best value — save over 60%
- Permanent memory archive
- Memory resurfacing
- Cancel anytime
Lifetime
Yours to keep, forever. A limited launch offer.
€119.99once
- Everything in Annual
- Pay once, keep forever
- No renewals, ever
- For couples who dislike endless subscriptions
One premium, two people. When one partner subscribes, the whole couple unlocks everything. No double charges, no awkward splitting — premium travels with the pair.
Payment is charged to your Apple ID at confirmation. Subscriptions auto-renew unless turned off in your Apple ID settings at least 24 hours before the current period ends. The lifetime plan is a one-time purchase. See our Terms and Privacy Policy.
Privacy & trust
Private by design.
Private to you two
Strictly partner-to-partner. No public profiles, no feeds, no comments, no discoverability. Ruva lives between two people.
Delete everything, for real
Account deletion is built into the app. Unpairing removes all shared content from both accounts. Export your data first if you want to keep it.
Take your data with you
Export your whole relationship archive — answers, voice notes, photos, memories — as a portable bundle you can keep.
Quiet by default
Notifications feel caring, not addictive. You choose which categories reach you and set your own quiet hours. No shame, no false urgency.
FAQ
Questions, answered.
Is Ruva a questions app?
No. Ruva is a ritual engine. Each interaction is a designed session — a reveal, a memory artifact, a small shared moment — not another generic card deck.
Do both partners need to subscribe?
No. Premium is couple-wide: when one partner subscribes, both unlock everything. There's no double billing.
Is it only for long-distance couples?
No. Ruva works for long-distance couples and for couples who live together but want better quality moments than passive texting. Some ritual modes, like Parallel, are tuned for distance.
Is my content private?
Everything is strictly partner-to-partner — no profiles, feeds, or discoverability. Content is encrypted in transit. You can export your data and delete your account any time, and unpairing removes shared content from both accounts.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. Subscriptions renew automatically but can be turned off in your Apple ID settings at least 24 hours before the current period ends. The lifetime plan is a one-time purchase with no renewals.
Does Ruva offer therapy or relationship counseling?
No, and we don't claim to. Ruva is a ritual and reflection tool for connection — not medical, mental-health, or relationship treatment.
Keep your rituals going.
A private space for two — built for the moments worth repeating.
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